I'm a ferocious, dangerous creature; a sadistic, controlling, amazonian creature, guarded with my vulnerability and protective of those around me.

I am a worshipping, eager-to-please creature who is putty in the hands of of someone who knows how to maintain a connection with their body and their ropes; a service-oriented, caring, obedient creature who loves when her partners can clearly and consistently communicate their needs, desires and boundaries.

I am a creature who blossoms with verbal encouragement, firm petting, and who will avoid punishment at all costs; don't get me wrong, I love to receive rough body play, thuddy spankings, and bastinado... I just prefer it to be play, not punishment. Positive reinforcement is far more effective at keeping me in-line than fear.

I am polyamorous, and I am already owned. I'm not seeking "The One", or to replace my Owner of over 3 years (who is also my common-law spouse). He is aware that I seek others, and has another partner also. I also have a boyfriend who is my chastened sissy, he's very sweet and I adore him.

I look for unique individuals who are aware of their privilege, and who value consent.

People who have lives outside of kink that they are also willing to share with me; I don't just date in the dungeon.

I'm looking for someone I can connect with on a human level as well as a kinky one.

I look for experienced, risk-aware individuals who will respect my other relationships, and who are either actively polyamorous themselves, or whom are poly-friendly.

I value honour, integrity, and respect in my partners.

I am not looking for:


- Anyone who is seeking to cheat on their partner(s) with me.


- No Strings Attached sex/play


- Online play and/or cyber-sex.

- Monogamy