shybigsub9 Profile Information

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shybigsub9
Woman (Sub) Seeking A Man
Age 47 From Fredericksburg, Virginia
Online - Over 2 weeks ago
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Basic Information

    I Can Speak: English
    I Would Describe Myself As: Not a hookup or into married men

    I am not only submissive in the bedroom, but also enjoy serving and pleasing a Dominant outside of the bedroom. I enjoy taking care of Him including house chores, bathing, cooking, and waiting on Him. I can also maybe help with business and secretarial duties, should those be needed. I also want to be His friend, and have a relationship as much as a dynamic. I hope to learn who you are, enjoy your hobbies with you, and adventure into sexual pleasures that expand our senses.

    Trust and respect are earned before submission and obedience are given.

    I am an all natural, heterosexual woman. I don’t color my hair, I don’t have fake nails, and don’t wear a lot of makeup. All of those things are negotiable, if they are important to you. I am low maintenance, easy to please, and the valuable resources I need from a Dominant are his time and his touch.

    I am looking for a long-term relationship, within a reasonable driving distance. Preferably under 90 minutes each way. I am not interested in one-night stands, hookups, sessions, scenes, casual sex, or any form of short-term relationship.

    I'm looking for a Dom who I can serve with pleasure and be cared for in return. PE with the possibility to TPE. I'm an obese woman and willing to work on being who you envision, but must be patient and accepting of who I am currently.

    My ideal relationship with a Dominant is to start a long-term relationship, living close by but not living together; monogamous; no married men. As our relationship builds, we can work toward staying one night a week at each other’s places and build up from there, but he must be patient with me learning how to share my space. Although I may be submissive, I’m independent. I want to work toward a TPE, but that will take time, trust, patience, and training.
    Sign: Sagittarius

Appearance & Situation

    My Body Type Is: Heavyset
    My Height Is: 5' 9 (1.75 m)
    My Eyes Are: Brown
    My Ethnicity Is: Caucasian
    My Marital Situation Is: Never Married
    I Have Kids: No
    I Want Kids: No
    My Best Feature Is: Eyes
    Body Art: Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
    My Hair Is: Brown
    I Have One Or More Of These: Cat
    Willing To Relocate: Yes

Status

    My Education Level Is: College Degree
    My Current Employment Status Is: Full-time
    My Speciality Is: Administrative / Management
    My Job Title Is: Analyst
    I Make This Much In A Year: $30,000USD To $44,999USD
    I Live: With Roomate(s)
    At Home: It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
    I'm A Smoker: No
    I Drink: Yes - One Or Two

Personality

    Back In High School, I Was A: Brain
    My Social Behavior Is: Reserved, Shy, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Comedic
    My Interest And Hobbies Are: Dining, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Camping, Gambling, Computers
    My Idea Of A Great Time Is: Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
    An Ideal First Date Would Be: Have a man talk me through cooking his dinner so that we both learn how he likes to train, his patience if mistakes are made, and how well I can learn. Once "we" are done cooking, eating a quiet meal outside on a deck/patio and discuss what expectations were met or not met during cooking...then maybe if things go well...he can ask me over again for a second date ;-)
    I've Always Wanted To Try: Going to a BDSM club.
    My Friends Describe Me As Being: Friendly

Views

    My Religion Is: Agnostic
    I Attend Services: Never
    My Political Views Are: Middle Of The Road
    My Goal In Life Is: To make the people I love happy, including myself, of course!
    My Kind Of Humor Is: Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste

    On Tv, I Always Watch: Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, I Don't Like Tv, Reality Shows, Re-runs
    When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A: Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family
    When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To: Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Blues, New age, Ambient, Dance, Gospel, Punk
    When I Read, I Always Read: Biography, Business, Classic, Computers, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Reference, Romance, Erotica
    My Idea Of Fun Is: Anything you desire....but i prefer movies, dancing, music, and books.

Looking for

    What Do You Find Attractive?: Wit, Power, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
    What Do You Look For?: I am looking for other submissive friends and Dom who understand the lifestyle I enjoy living and respect the bounds agreed upon.
    What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?: Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Domination, Just Wanna Fuck

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